Known for my holistic approach to family law, and referred to as "the divorce mystic," I have been an intuitive divorce attorney for 25 years. When I dared to integrate my intuitive gifts into my legal practice, magic happened for my clients.
I now focus on assisting women to navigate their divorce from the perspective of their soul's journey. Although my legal experience and insights are especially valuable to my clients, my passion has always been the intuitive, spiritual / holistic aspects of my work.
Ten years into my legal career, I grew more despondent with each litigated divorce. I found it hard to buy into a system where couples and families were subjected to an adversarial judicial process in order to achieve resolution of their most intimate, private issues. It was particularly touching for families with children where co-parenting would become a necessity following divorce.
The dissolution of a marriage does not dissolve the family -- the family is simply transformed. It is my belief that, other than in extreme cases, most couples would choose an alternative if divorce litigation wasn't accepted as the norm.
Placing individuals in a win-lose scenario -- stripping them of their privacy and compounding feelings of desperation and fear -- is counterintuitive and against our innate expression of love. Rather than choosing to leave the practice of law at that time, I opened my own office and limited my practice to non-adversarial, intuitive, holistic approaches to divorce resolution.
It became my mission to shift the perception of divorce from a fear-based process -- into a sacred love story of the soul -- and to evolve the way individuals perceive divorce and families are treated in the process.
By integrating my intuitive gifts and other training (Shamanic Healing; Reiki and other Energy Healing Modalities; Mediumship; Tarot and other Divination Tools;
Meditation Techniques; Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique [QHHT]; Transpersonal Hypnotherapy; Mediation; Collaborative Law; Life and Spiritual / Soul Coaching Certifications), I became known for my signature holistic approach to family law.
It is essential to recognize divorce as a symbolic knock on the door of our inner being . . . prompting us to pay a visit . . . a visit ripe with opportunity. If we are willing to explore beyond the illusion and focus our attention on the true agenda of the Soul, the transition of divorce becomes a profound and enlightening experience . . . a portal . . . a catalyst for our soul's evolution.
When divorce is viewed as a beginning rather than an ending, the journey becomes one of grace and anticipation, imbued with self-confidence and hope. All transitions come with uncertainty, but an enlightened, holistic divorce, sets the stage for deep healing, an expanded consciousness, and serves to propel us into the future we are meant to live.
I am here to serve as a trusted guide and would be honored to walk with you on the journey.
Following the publication of my book, "Divorce, Holistically Yours: Learn Essential Knowledge of the Legal System and How Divorce Can Be a Catalyst for Your Soul's Evolution," I was encouraged to create a program for women that more fully supports their sacred divorce journey.
Divorce in the Age of of Aquarius - The Way of the Divine Feminine ™
Together, we will walk through seven transformative doorways. If you desire to move through your divorce informed and enlightened -- if you want a guide beside you who fully understands and can meet you where you are (legally, practically, and spiritually) -- if you want a guide who knows the journey ahead and truly cares about your well-being -- and, if you are willing to take my hand and commit to the wisdom of your Soul to carry you through this sacred journey,
I would be delighted to work with you!
I also offer a Soul-to-Soul Mediation Process for couples ready to resolve their family matter with an intuitive mediator who honors the sacred journey. Please check out the "Soul-to-Soul Mediation" Page for more information.
A glimpse into what others are saying:
"My experience with Pamela was nothing short of life-changing. Going through divorce upended me and created complete chaos and fear in my life. With Pamela‘s guidance and assistance, I was able to pull myself together, understand the process legally, and most importantly, spiritually. With her guidance, I learned to fine tune my energy and my spirit so that I may have better communication with my husband . . . which after our divorce led to reconciliation! It was a beautiful process and I recommend Pamela for anyone who is going through such a horrible and trying time in their life. Her abilities to guide one spiritually along with her incredible knowledge of the legal divorce process is nothing short of extraordinary."
"Every divorce should be handled in this manner. So much trauma could be avoided. Thank you, Pamela, for providing a safe space to process, heal and allow my soul to take the wheel. What a wonderfully enlightening experience."
~ Mary Ann
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