Hello, I'm Pamela
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Known for my holistic approach to family law, and referred to as "the divorce mystic," I have been an intuitive divorce attorney, mediator and coach for over 25 years. When I dared to integrate my intuitive gifts into my legal practice, magic happened for my clients.
I now focus on assisting women to navigate their divorce from the perspective of their soul's journey. My legal experience and insights are especially valuable to my clients; however, it is my intuitive, spiritual / holistic aspects of my work that bring in the magic.
I created this business to serve as a bridge between the head and the heart, structure and soul, letting go and starting over. My approach is trauma-aware, spiritually grounded, and deeply personal. Whether you're navigating an amicable separation or high-conflict dynamics, I meet you where you are — with no judgment, only support.
Ten years into my legal career, I grew more despondent with each litigated divorce. I found it hard to buy into a system where couples and families were subjected to an adversarial process in order to achieve resolution of their most intimate, private issues - particularly for families with children where co-parenting would become a necessity following divorce.
The dissolution of a marriage does not dissolve the family -- the family is simply transformed. It is my belief that, other than in extreme cases, most couples would choose an alternative if divorce litigation wasn't accepted as the norm.
Placing individuals in a win-lose scenario -- stripping them of their privacy and compounding feelings of desperation and fear -- is counterintuitive and against our innate expression of love. Faced with a decision to either leave the law or make a shift, I opened my own office and limited my practice to non-adversarial, holistic approaches to divorce resolution.
It became my mission to shift the perception of divorce from a fear-based process -- into a sacred love story of the Soul -- and to evolve the way individuals perceive divorce and how families are treated in the process.
By integrating my intuitive gifts and other training (Energy Healing Modalities; Mediumship; Tarot and other Divination Tools; Meditation Techniques; Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique [QHHT]; Transpersonal Hypnotherapy; Mediation; Collaborative Law; Life and Spiritual / Soul Coaching Certifications), I became known for my signature holistic approach to family law.
It is essential to recognize divorce as a symbolic knock on the door of our inner being . . . prompting us to pay a visit . . . a visit ripe with opportunity. If we are willing to explore beyond the illusion and focus our attention on the true agenda of the soul, the transition of divorce becomes a profound and enlightening experience . . . a portal . . . a catalyst for our soul's evolution.
When divorce is viewed as a beginning rather than an ending, the journey becomes one of grace and anticipation, imbued with self-confidence and hope. All transitions come with uncertainty, but an enlightened, awakened and holistic divorce, sets the stage for deep healing, an expanded consciousness, and serves to propel us into the future we are meant to live.
I am here to serve as a trusted guide and would be honored to walk with you on the journey.
Following the publication of my book, "Divorce, Holistically Yours: Learn Essential Knowledge of the Legal System and How Divorce Can Be a Catalyst for Your Soul's Evolution," I was encouraged to create a program for women that more fully supports their sacred divorce journey.
The Awakened Divorce - The Way of the Divine Feminine ™ with seven transformative doorways was the result.
Together, we will walk through seven transformative doorways. If you desire to move through your divorce informed and enlightened -- if you want a guide beside you who fully understands and can meet you where you are (legally, practically, and spiritually) -- if you want a guide who knows the journey ahead and truly cares about your well-being -- and, if you are willing to take my hand and commit to the wisdom of your Soul to carry you through this sacred journey,
I would be delighted to work with you!
